Prevailing Truths

I’ve encountered many people who were facing different struggles in their own personal life and one of the most common people that I’m almost to encounter are those people who struggles about LOVE.

Everytwhere I go I always hear people talking about love, but do we know what love really is?

There are moments when we thought that we were inlove to someone. This is one of the few things I found out about this matter. There are moments when we find it hard to distinguish between love and appreciation, some of us thought that we’ve just fallen inlove with somebody but to know that fact it’s sometimes not love that we truly feel but it’s only appreciation. Why so that we came to this dilemma? In some of my observation some people were becoming too much curious about love how is it to be inlove to somebody, what will we really feel if were feeling it already, if we are very curious about this things we’ll never be able to understand what we really feel for you to be able to know whether it’s love that you really feel take a silent moment and reflect on yourself, take time to think of what you really feel make your mind blank of anything else and then try to describe your emotion in few sentences as you wish and if you’d like to, write those sentences in a paper and underline all the main points that you were able to construct then after connect them all to each other then confirm to what main point they are pointing and you’ll be able to find out answers or if not a clue for you to know what you really feel. If your not satisfy ask a trusted friend with you and be honest of what really is in your mind don’t let anything else to bother you while trying to grasp your true being, cause if you’ll do bother yourself to anything else even your friend won’t be able to come up with the good advice just to help you.

I also encounter people who were having trouble about their partner in their past relationship, this is a very usual thing to happen. When I firstly encounter this type of person I was able to formulate a question is it possible that our feeling for a particular person will still be the same even if we ended up in a break up? Maybe yes in some instances only if we really know that it’s love that we really feel for a person but to tell you not all the time this is the situation. Sometimes it’s all because of excitement that we only feel & not the emotion that we always thought it was this may happen when we see a person for a long time since the day we’ve ended up or for some reasons it’s only because we’ve had some good memories from a person that we’ve mostly appreciated or lots of reasons that may mislead us about the realities of our emotions. After listening to some sharing of my friends this I always keep on saying to them "If you want to forget your past stop bothering yourself about the past." Try some new things move on your own don’t be just trap for such a simple thing, don’t let it damage what you should be today, and you’ll see there much more things that are worth to be given enough time than becoming a prisoner on the vengeance of your yesterday.

It was morning of February 2, 2008 and everyone in our place was so busy preparing for such an occasion which will be held few days from it. It was a funny thing for a person like me cause that was only one of the few time in my life when I was reminded of how many occasions had already passed and I don’t even put any of those into my own routine, maybe of many busy things that I need to give more priority in life than giving more time in enjoying. I don’t even have time to take a glance of myself and take a little time to reflect of where I ‘am now. Only one thing I keep on thinking to achieve and that is to obtain success.

I’ve come this far and I keep seeking for what I was really trying to achieve, as time goes by things are becoming much more complicated than they were before. I’m trying to acquire things which I thought would give me contentment, but not even one of them do satisfies me just to be able to say that I’ve completely knew the meaning of my survival. I tried seeking for what I want in anyway that I know, I dive in the deepest and inner most of my mind but I found no answer, I’ve tried to compromise with the things that others do but I don’t find it that interesting to give more time, I’ve tried to work hard, but after a few days, I will just find it like no sense at all. I’ve tried to define life in my own words and I never knew that it’s more than what I always thought it was. When I came to the point to explore life I fought that it would be the same as how I read a book that every idea were just written and hidden in every leaf of its page, till I discover that there were more things to discover more than the ordinary way of just reading a book. That was the turning point on my journey of knowing the true meaning of life that I’m very much interested to discover. Revealing its’ secrets is not as easy as I knew before, there were much to know, there were much to discover, even the best scientist might not be able to have an exact explanation to it such as why people live, and what’s the reason for their existence, why everything are reacting just to survive, why others still feel being happy, hurt or even feel hatred to others and if were curious enough to know we’ll just find more answers in the reality each of which would surely have no definite idea, but we live with it, because it’s how broad life is because many facts about it were kept hidden and needs a lot of time to be able to grasp the true meaning before we’ll be able to sought the perfect answer to the question why there is life in this world. And as I go along I’ve just realize that one answer may not be a final answer, but it’s only apart of those few answers that answers only what you really want to know about your life, and will not always be consider as what others would also like to know.